I belong to a segment of bloggers who , Post, Sit and Wait. We dream of some influential A List Bloggers stumbling into our blog and giving us the much needed boost by mentioning what great articles we have in our blogs. We live in world of fantasy, fantasising how great our articles are and why people are not noticing such a fantastic blog.

We try various cheap methods like mentioning big names in our post, hoping to lure them to our blogs. Sometimes they come, most of the time, they ignore, because there are thousands of others like us trying to bait them to their blogs too. Even on rare occasions that they do come, they leave after seeing what they saw, which I think to them is as common as a common cold.

Most days, we go scouring around the sphere, hoping to find that non existent killer tip that would propel our blogs to kingdom come, while we sit and enjoy the flight without doing too much. We simply refuse to believe the fact that if any blogs were to be successful, there is hard work to be done and great sacrifices to be made. We hope for a miracle that will never be forthcoming. And why do we behave like that? It all boils down to 1 core reason:

We are too lazy and wants a short and easy path to success.

We refuse to follow the 3 main methods that could possibly make our blogs a little bit more popular.

Free Methods.

Doing all the things in Dosh Dosh’s Secret to Building a Popular Blog is really too taxing and too much work.

Socialising Methods.

Though we read that using social networks like Facebook, MySpace and of late, Twitter, is one hell of a way to increase popularity, trying to digest all of the 7 parts in Caroline Middlebrook’s The Big Juicy Twitter Guide is really too time consuming.

Paid methods.

Spending money for traffic as Daniel advised in his 7 Ways to Promote your Site with a Bit of Money seems totally infeasible to us.

We are adverse to all this 3 areas that many A Listers use to popularise their blogs. We blog diligently everyday, waiting for the big break to fall from the sky. We keep wondering why the day never comes after all the “hard” work we have poured in.

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